Dear habits…
A habit journal, since January 2023
Dear habits…
A letter to the things I tried to do every day: sleep, routine, study, chores. Some stuck, some faded, some I let go. The daily records stay private; the story is here.
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Stats
- 161Habits tracked
- 28,412Daily entries
- Nov 2022Tracking since
Stories
Retired
Sleep before 2330
Done Not done Skipped Not logged I started this in October 2023 because I was convinced my real problem was sleep. My consistency kept slipping, I was going to bed far too late, and the advice around me all said the same thing: fix the bedtime and the rest follows. So the goal was simple, in bed before 23:30 every night, and I wanted to keep it going as long as I could.
- 13 of 91nights before 23:30
- 6nights in a row, my best
- 1 Feb 2024last night logged
It faded fast. The first week was the best it ever got, and after that the monthly hit rate only went down.
Hit rate by month Hit rate by month. Share of logged nights before 23:30. October is only 12 nights because it began on the 17th. label Nights before 23:30 Oct 50% Nov 16% Dec 4% Jan 7% Share of logged nights before 23:30. October is only 12 nights because it began on the 17th.
What I never did was check whether the theory was true. This habit's own log can't answer it, but from April 2024 I tracked my bedtime in a separate habit. Here is when I actually fell asleep.
When I actually fell asleep When I actually fell asleep. 854 nights, April 2024 to September 2026, in half-hour steps. Orange bars are the nights that met the goal. label Nights <22:30 10 22:30 11 23:00 20 23:30 14 00:00 61 00:30 65 01:00 117 01:30 123 02:00 122 02:30 92 03:00 76 03:30 48 04:00 27 04:30+ 63 854 nights, April 2024 to September 2026, in half-hour steps. Orange bars are the nights that met the goal.
- 02:00median bedtime
- 5%of nights before 23:30
- 8.4 haverage sleep
And it never changed. In no month did my median bedtime get earlier than 00:30.
Median bedtime, month by month Median bedtime, month by month. Every month's median sits between 00:30 and 03:00. It never reached the goal. label Median bedtime Apr 24 00:30 May 24 01:30 Jun 24 02:07 Jul 24 01:45 Aug 24 01:45 Sep 24 01:00 Oct 24 02:00 Nov 24 01:45 Dec 24 01:53 Jan 25 02:15 Feb 25 02:00 Mar 25 02:30 Apr 25 01:30 May 25 01:30 Jun 25 02:00 Jul 25 03:00 Aug 25 01:45 Sep 25 01:30 Oct 25 00:45 Nov 25 01:15 Dec 25 03:00 Jan 26 03:00 Feb 26 02:37 Mar 26 02:30 Apr 26 02:37 May 26 01:45 Jun 26 02:07 Jul 26 01:30 Aug 26 01:45 Every month's median sits between 00:30 and 03:00. It never reached the goal.
So did the late nights cost me anything? I compared each night's bedtime with how much of my daily habit list I did on the day that followed and, as a check, on the day before the night.
Habits done, by bedtime - The day before the night
- The day after the night
Habits done, by bedtime. Average share of my daily habits done, by bedtime in one-hour groups labelled by their start. The day before is a control: if late nights only followed bad days, it would slope too. label The day before the night The day after the night <23:30 69% 63% 23:30 71% 69% 00:30 69% 72% 01:30 71% 71% 02:30 70% 70% 03:30+ 69% 69% Average share of my daily habits done, by bedtime in one-hour groups labelled by their start. The day before is a control: if late nights only followed bad days, it would slope too.
There is no slope. The correlation between bedtime and the next day's completion is essentially zero (p = 0.67), and just as flat for the day before. The one bar that stands out is the early one, and it points the wrong way.
- +0.02correlation, bedtime vs next day
- 63% vs 71%habits done after an early night vs any other
- 10.5 h vs 8.3 hsleep on those early nights vs others
My guess is that those 41 early nights were tired nights and the long sleep pushed the whole day later, but I can't prove that and it is a small sample. "No evidence it helped" is the fair reading, not "it hurt".
So I retired it. The habit mostly failed, but it did its job: it was the test. Sleeping late wasn't what was holding my consistency back. I had picked that up from the advice around me and never checked it.
Every day91 entries, 14% done
Retired
Forms filling
I started this with my family as an expenses tracker, filling in a form each time we spent something. Apparently it only lasted a week as an idea, and the log agrees: it began on 17 January 2024 and was over by the 24th.
Every day4 entries, 50% done
17 Jan181920212223244 logged, 2 done, 2 not done Done Not done Skipped